You Are Standing in the Middle of a Referral

                                       Look around. What do you see?

Most people don’t realize that they are always standing in the middle of a referral. Look around you. Do you see carpeting that needs to be cleaned? A frustrated mother who needs a bigger house? A company that needs a new accountant, a window that needs to be replaced, or new friend who needs a banker?

The key to giving good referrals is to be aware of your surroundings. Listen for a need or a problem that someone may have. You become a resource for them. You can refer someone that you know, like and trust to help resolve the problem or situation.

Here is a good example of how easy it is to give referrals.

While walking the dog, my husband Todd stopped to visit with the neighbor and asked what lawn service he was using. Doug went on to say that he hired a company because he was having a lot of neck and back pain. He said that the doctor said it was arthritis and to “get used to the pain”.

Immediately, Todd pulled out his phone and gave Doug Dr. Jolley’s phone number. Luke Jolley is in one of our clubs in Tulsa and he is our personal Chiropractor. After hearing how much we love going Dr. Jolley, Doug promised to call him.

Knowing Todd, he will follow up with Doug in a few days to see if he made that appointment.

Here are some suggestions on how to give good referrals:

§  Always have the business cards of the members of your group readily available.

§  Program your phone with the telephone numbers of all your members.

§  Keep your club members cards and brochures visible at your place of business.

§  Be the “resource person” for all your friends, family, connections and business associates.

§  Invite your customers to call you for a recommendation before they go to the Yellow Pages.

§  Try to personally use your club member’s services and products as often as you can.

§  Don’t hesitate to tell success stories about another member’s business.

§  Invite a visitor to attend your referral group to personally meet a member.

§  Arrange to have lunch with a potential client and a club member.

§  Ask them, “Would it be okay if I had his office call you to explain what they do?”

§  Get the customer’s business card and get permission for the member to call. Say, “I’ll have him call you, would that be okay?”

§  Invite your customer to go through your business cards while they wait.

§  Send a thank you card to your customer and include names and numbers of some other businesses that may help them with the next step or with a future need.

§  Connect online with your clients and recommend connections to members in your referral group.

4 Powerful Ways to Open a Presentation

How do you begin your presentations?

We have all been there before. It's 60 seconds before you begin and suddenly your mind goes blank. What should you say? How do you open? 

Let's be honest, we've all struggled with this at one time or another. Here are a few tips on how to open up your presentation or speech.

1. Tell a story. When opening with a story, give them a shocking statement right off the bat, such as: "I ran into the wall yesterday." or "I hate jumping out of airplanes." Then quickly tell a story that will lead into your topic.
2. Give a quote. A quote lets you borrow someone else's credibility. A funny quote is even better. It makes you an instant hit.
3. Ask an interesting or fun question, like: "How many of you put the toilet paper on backwards?" or "Are you a cat person or a dog person?" or "Raise your hand, have you ever played a game on your phone while in a meeting?"
4. Shock them with facts or statistics. "Over 50% of the people in this room cheat on their taxes." or "All states have dumb laws. In Iowa, it's against the law for a man with a mustache to kiss a woman in public."

Have some fun and lighten up. Tell a good story about something stupid you did and people will relate. Shock them or make them laugh. Step outside of your comfort zone and give some of these ideas a try.

These ideas will even work when giving a 60 second presentation like we do at Gold Star Referral Clubs. Grab their attention and don't let go.

Legal Dangers of Social Networking

Take care when networking online.

It isn't often that I just cut & paste an article into my blog, but this warning from Legal Shield could save you and your business from making mistakes when networking online.

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Legal Dangers of Social Networking

Facebook, Twitter, blogs, message boards and other social media websites and apps are great tools to help you connect with friends and family. Businesses and professionals also use social networking to connect with customers and coworkers. Many social media users are unaware that the information they post online and the digital trail they leave behind can be used against them in court. The following information will help you understand the legal risks involved in social networking.

1. Attorney-Client Confidentiality – Attorney-client confidentiality protects all communications between you and your attorney. This means the information you communicate directly to your attorney cannot be used against you in court. A breach of attorney-client privilege can seriously harm your case. Talking about your legal matter online is a serious breach of confidentiality.Do not discuss the details of your case with anyone other than your attorney.
   
   
2. Anonymity – Posting comments to online forums, news outlets or blogs can give you the impression of anonymity. There is no anonymity online; everything can be traced back to its source. Before posting anything online consider the very real possibility that it will be traced back to you. 
   
   
3. Children – Child predators use social networking sites to find victims. Talk to your children about online safety. In addition, online bullying has grown rapidly in recent years. It is important to talk to children about how to handle being bullied, as well as the importance of reporting and not participating in the bullying of other children. 
   
   
4. Family Law – Facebook profiles and Twitter posts are being introduced as evidence more and more frequently in divorce and child custody cases. No matter what your intention when posting something online, consider how it could come back to haunt you. The best advice is to take a break from Facebook or other social media during a divorce or custody dispute.
   
   
5. Criminal Law - In addition to divorce court, the digital trail created through social networking is becoming increasingly common in criminal cases. Discussing illegal activity, even in jest, could land you in hot water. 
   
   
6. Human Resources – Employers are increasingly turning to social media to learn more about applicants. Applicants should be aware that their profiles and posts could be used for this purpose. Employers must be careful not to unlawfully discriminate based on age, gender, race, religious beliefs or sexual orientation. Employees who disparage their employers or coworkers online could even lose their job.
   
   
7. Identity Theft – Thieves and scammers often use social networking sites to gather personal information on victims. You may think it is perfectly harmless to discuss your birthday or post the address of your new home on Facebook or Twitter, but that type of personal information can be used against you. Think carefully about the information you post online.

This post was taken from Legal Services website. You can read more at:

 https://sites.legalshield.com/cp/newsletter/issue10_v2.html#Story1

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10 Irrefutable Laws of Referral Building

Listed below are some of the fundamental truths about referral building. 

These laws, without question, outline absolute truths about referral relationships.

1.  If they don't like you, they won't refer to you, even if your price or quality is better.

2.  Without a follow-up note or a meeting, most new referral sources will forget about you in less than 10 days.

3.  In order for your referral network to consistently refer to you, they need a crystal-clear understanding of what you do and the problems that you solve.

4.  Technology will never replace face-to-face relationships and personal chemistry.

5.   A lead is not a referral. A referral is when you connect someone you know, like and trust to someone you care about who has a need. A lead is barely more than a cold call.  

6.  A few quality referrals are better than a larger quantity of leads.

7.  Referral sources are based on relationship building, not networking.

8.  Many people that you may consider referral sources are actually just social contacts, networking buddies and good-time charlies, who have rarely, if ever, sent you a referral.

9.  Lack of visibility is the top reason why referral relationships falter. If they never hear from you or see you, even if they know, like and trust you, they will forget about you.   

10.  You should be able to close a well-endorsed quality referral 85% of the time.

Winning with Mastery

There is an old country axiom which states, "Success in life comes not from holding a good hand, but in playing a poor hand well."

You were born to succeed, not fail. By mastering your talents and skills you can not only win at what you do, but new doors of opportunity will open to you. 

I have seen individuals with mediocre abilities manage to attract amazing results by mastering what they do. From their business to their personal lives. 

Skill, like muscle grows through exercise. We can practice being the best we can be and extend our skills even more by hanging out with people who challenge us to be excellent so that we can become better each day. 

"I'm a great believer in luck, and I find the harder I work, the more I have of it." - Thomas Jefferson. 

As the CEO & Founder of Gold Star Referral Clubs, I find that I have never learned enough about referral marketing. I want to stay on top of the game. I try to set the stage for success with the business people in Gold Star. I want them to excel at giving and receiving referrals in an environment that allows their hard work and talents to shine. I find that when we're challenged to be become better, we do.

Complacency is a thief that steals our business and tries to make us fail. Gold Star gives us a great system to help us all become better business people. It is a quality environment that brings us more business AND makes us sharpen our business skills.

"Quality is about love; it's a passionate obsession with perfection. It is the result of good intentions, uncompromising standards, sincere effort, intelligent design, attention to detail and skillful execution. Quality is the calling card of greatness." - Gary Ryan Blair, author of Everything Counts.

Winning With Referrals

15 REASONS WHY REFERRALS ARE BEST

 15 reasons why referral marketing should be an essential part of your customer acquisition plan.

1.       Customers that are referred to you come with an assumption of trust. They trust you because someone else did.

2.       Referred clients are easier to bond with and to close.

3.       Referred customers are more tolerant and balanced in their expectations.

4.       A friend of a friend factor creates instant likeability.

5.       Referral sales generate a higher commission average with less negotiation on price.

6.       A referred client or patient finds it easy to refer you to friends with similar needs.

7.       Referred clients are less likely to comparison shop.

8.       Referred customers have more loyalty.

9.       Referred customers are likely to use your product more extensively due to faith in your company.

10.   Referred customers are found to be better informed.

11.   Referred customers are more likely to be a better match for your service or product.

12.   The relationship with a referred client is instantly deeper than a non-referred one.

13.   Referred customers, clients or patients are more likely to share their experience with others.

14.   Referred customers find satisfaction in the fact that someone cared enough about them to refer them to a good company.

15.   Referred customers enjoy being part of your success.

And last but not least, neither you nor the customers enjoy cold calls.

Attitude is the Mother of Luck

What separates the lucky winners from the guy who tried, but lost? Why does one person get referrals and another one doesn't?

This month, we're looking at the subject of winning. Which leads us to ask, "Are some people just luckier than others?" 

Sometimes a Gold Star Referral Club member will come to me and say that they can't figure out why other people are getting referrals and they aren't. Is it just luck? 

Researchers have spent years analyzing what separates lucky people from unlucky people and what they have discovered is that a positive attitude and an upbeat outlook on life can actually make you luckier. Who knew?

If you want to increase your luck...

• Be available for opportunities. Get out there and be pro-active.
• Listen to that little voice in your head. It may be God telling you to pay attention.
• Expect to win. Be alert and ready to be the winner, to accept the prize.
• Look on the bright side of life. Even if you don't always get what you want, you'll feel like a winner. Sometimes, that's more important than winning.

Attitude is the mother of luck. You don't have to be born lucky to win at life and business. Watch this video to what Gold Star can do to increase your referrals.