Why resolutions don't work.

You can only aim at one.

It's only January 2nd and already we see our New Year resolutions slipping into the ditch. Why?

As we look at the previous year in retrospect, it's easy to see that with a few changes, the new year can be better. With that in mind, we love to set New Year resolutions and goals. 

A resolution is defined as a firm resolve to do or not to do something.  It's a decision, with a goal in mind. Resolutions by themselves are not goals. A resolution is like a car without a steering wheel, destined to go off the road within minutes of starting. In order to succeed, every resolution needs a strong goal.

It's only January 2nd, all is not lost. I would like to propose that you can succeed with your New Year's resolution this year with this simple 2 step plan.

1.) Only make one resolution. Never underestimate the power of one. One focus, one goal, one target.  Gary Keller, author of The One Thing says:

To-do lists tend to be long; success lists are short. One pulls you in all directions; the other aims you in a specific direction. One is disorganized and the other is an organized directive. 

If you want to succeed at your New Year's resolution this year just make one and clearly define what the goal is behind the decision. In the game of billiards the players can only strike one ball at a time,  A good strategy is that the one ball will hit other balls causing them to go into pockets, but the secret is still to focus on the direction of the one ball. The goal is to win the game.

What is the one direction that will make a difference, in your life, your work or your family? Perhaps, that is the one resolution that you should set this year. The goal is the result of that decision.

2.) Strike with a plan. Once you have decided what your one resolution is, you can power-up and strike. Thoughtful implementation of a plan will give you control and direction toward your goal. 

Again, going back to the game of billiards, you will never win if you hit the cue ball willy-nilly without a plan. It takes well calculated execution to use one ball as a catalyst, placing the other balls at strategic points for a win. 

When you decide on the one resolution that will be your catalyst for great change in your life, you MUST calculate the direction, the risk and the sacrifices that must be made in order to succeed. Then take steps each day toward that goal. The simpler the plan, the better.

Strangely enough, I have found that the success of implementing a great strategy nearly brings as much joy and positive posture as actually achieving the goal.  Of course, we know that success is in the journey. So start today and I wish you much success.

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